Merry Christmas Everyone

December 25, 2007 - 11:04am

Just a quick note. Our family chose not to exchange presents this year. Instead we're taking a trip together. We'll be back January 4th. I'm not planning on doing any serious writing while we are gone, though I might post something here or there. Christian Century has two of my essays. I put a lot of time into them, and I'm anxious to post them here. But I'm waiting for them. One of them has to go in the magazine before I can put it online. The other is waiting for final edits. If one goes online, I'll post a link to it.

One of the nice things that happens if you are the pastor of a church for a long time is you get to watch children grow up. One family came to our church in 1990 with a 10th grader, an 8th grader, and a 5th grader. I have now married all three of them, and been there for the birth of three grandchildren. This is the kind of stuff you miss with the giant, "come and try us and if you don't like it try somewhere else" churches. They miss real intimacy. But real intimacy is hard, and it hurts when people leave. Maybe most people don't want that.

Chloe has been going to our church since before she was in school. She's like another daughter to me. She's kind of quirky and interesting and I love that about her. I've written about Chloe once seriously, and mentioned her in a few other posts.

Here's what Chloe and I look like now. We rang Salvation Army bells together this year at our local Walmart. She's growing so tall. I can't believe how she has grown

She's gotten big, our little Chloe. Hard to believe. Here's what I'm hoping for Chloe and all of the kids who grow up at our church. They know what it is like to be loved. Not just by their parents, but by a community of people who know them by name and let them have their own personality and ways. Chloe prays out loud for Gypsies every Sunday. That's her thing to do, and we take it seriously. And it has led to our children sending money off to India on a regular basis.

So Merry Christmas Chloe. You and your sister Brittney are like sisters 4 and 5. We love you both.

gordon (I'm not rlp to them)

Submitted by Keith on December 25, 2007 - 2:40pm.

I always get a little shock when you mention entire worlds that don't relate to the ongoing story I perceive at this blog. Sending money to India--oh! You mean I don't have a window into your entire life? How weird.

Merry Christmas to your family, however you want to define it.

Submitted by islandpastor on December 25, 2007 - 3:21pm.

Merry Christmas to you and your family Gordon! May you have a Christ-filled day! Kevin

Submitted by Anonymous User (not verified) on December 25, 2007 - 4:38pm.

Merry Christmas Gordon, too you, all your family, and your readers :)

Paige

Submitted by Horseman Bree on December 25, 2007 - 7:43pm.

Reminds me of the line from Mike Yaconelli: "The best kind of Sunday School is called "church", which expressed the same reasoning.

I have to say it works for us in our church, too. We're not BIG in numbers, or flashy, but the weird mix of our congo. works for all of our ages.

Deep down, people need to be known for who they are, not for the facade they put up. God knows, but He expects of us to try as well.

Seems to be something about the second Great Commandment.

Submitted by Carl Holmes (not verified) on December 26, 2007 - 9:48am.

I hope your Christmas was joy filled and peaceful. May your family vacation be chok full of lasting memories and joyful time.

Carl
Thoughtsofagyrovague.com

Submitted by Michael Main on December 26, 2007 - 2:50pm.

She's got her dad's "growth" genes...Her dad is 6' 9"..

Let's see...you baptized her in August of 2003...this picture is a good growth indication...Gordon is the guy towering above her with no head.

I suspect there are few Chloe's anywhere...small church or not :)

Grace & Peace

Michael "Pepe" Main

Submitted by If not me then who on December 27, 2007 - 9:44pm.

Chloe was 2 years and 1 month old the first time she came to Covenant. I don't recall how tall she was then but she is currently 5'9". She has asked Gordon many a strange question over the years... When is God's birthday? Can the Holy Ghost haunt me? Did you fart? (Actually I recall that was more of a statement than a question.)

We truly love our village and the "elders" are definitely helping raise our kids.

Pepe, Chloe has always explained it as "Daddy and I have the same blood pressure."

Submitted by DS on December 31, 2007 - 9:20am.

Will you still be posting on this site. I hope so. Thanks for your writings.

Submitted by Peter Ellis on January 5, 2008 - 3:35am.

"I have now married all three of them" caused a momentary blink here before the brain re-engaged gears :-)