Foy Valentine 1923-2006

January 17, 2006 - 2:23pm

A hero of mine died last week. I wept openly when I read about it, though I only met him in person a couple of times. His name was Foy Valentine. And yes, that is where I got the name of my fictional character, Foy Davis, though my character bears no resemblance to Foy Valentine in personality. No, it's only a name that they share. I intended it to be a private tribute to someone whose life has meant much to me. I had planned to write a story about how Foy got his name. I'm sure I'll eventually get around to that, but since the real Foy has died, it seems right to tell you about him now.

Foy Valentine was a Christian first, and a Baptist kind of Christian only second. A lot of people have a hard time keeping that sort of thing in its proper order. Foy did not. He was a Christian ethicist who worked for the Southern Baptist Convention years ago. Foy's job was to speak the truth to those in power. And that he did. He received a lot of hate mail over the years from Baptists whose world was not large enough to hold truth. And he was labeled many things: A liberal, a radical, a nigger lover, a troublemaker.

As a young seminarian, I "met" Foy Valentine while researching Southern Baptist responses to the bombing of a Baptist church in Birmingham in 1963. Four Baptist children were killed in that blast. Four children whose skin was a dark color. I was shocked and dismayed to find that Southern Baptist newspapers throughout the South had nothing whatever to say about it. Not a mention.

But in my research I found the voice of one crying in the wilderness of the sins of my own people. It was a notation in the official record of the Southern Baptist Convention annual meeting of 1968. The record indicates that a man named Foy Valentine stood up on the convention floor and pleaded for his brothers and sisters in Christ to confess the sin of our racism and embrace people of all colors. He was the same age then that I am now. He was in his 40s and employed by those very Baptists to whom he spoke on that day. He had a wife and children and a lot to lose.

Apparently, truth meant more to Foy than comfort and security.

His remarks were not well received, to say the least. It would be another twenty years before the Southern Baptist Convention would confess that particular sin.

When I first read about Foy Valentine's courageous stance, I made a personal commitment that was so brash and bold that I am a little embarrassed to write about it here. I vowed that if I ever found myself in a similar situation, where being faithful to Christ would cost me dearly, I would follow in Foy's footsteps.

I fear that I will not be able to live up to Foy's strong example, and that fear haunts me always. What will it profit me if I gain the whole world, but lose my soul? But I hope that I am strong enough, because I would like my grandchildren to think about me in the same way that I think about him.

Thank you for the witness of your life and words, Foy. History has shown that you were on the right side of your generation's most important issue. May God grant us the courage to stand on the side of righteousness in our time as well.

rlp

Tribute to Foy Valentine by the editor of Christian Ethics Today, the journal that Foy Founded.

A very nice obituary and summary of Foy's life.

Submitted by Anonymous User on January 17, 2006 - 3:19pm.

thanks for your wonderful tribute to a great man. Ginger and I had a chance to spend time with Foy and his wife (I can't remember her name right now) at Blue Rock in Wimberley; they had a place just down the road from Billy and Dodee. Foy was still stirring up the waters.

When I look back on the Civil Rights era, I often wonder why I don't know hardly any Baptist preachers (since I grew up Baptist) who marched with King or spoke up in their own congregations the way Foy did at the SBC. The silence is deafening. When I look at the continuing issues of eqaulity and justice -- for the poor and those disenfranchised for any number of reasons -- I still do not hear much of a choir of voices crying out in the wilderness.

Foy was one who did.

May we also be.

Peace,
MIlton

Submitted by dont eat alone on January 17, 2006 - 3:24pm.

And next time I'll remember to log in before I make my comment. :-)

Peace
Milton

Submitted by paigeb on January 17, 2006 - 4:52pm.

What a great man. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.

Submitted by abiding on January 17, 2006 - 5:49pm.

What a courageous hero.

Submitted by rockin rev on January 17, 2006 - 8:24pm.

RLP,

Foy was a great human being and a very worthy of being considered a hero. Your tribute is a fine compliment to those of Joe Trull and Sam Hodges of the Dallas Morning News. May we all live with the compassion and integrity he demonstrated.

Submitted by HelenAngel on January 17, 2006 - 9:10pm.

He sounds like he was a wonderful man- I'll say a prayer for his family tonight. Men with that kind of honesty and resolve are few these days. Thank you so much for sharing his story. =)

Submitted by Billb on January 18, 2006 - 12:36am.

You know - when I read the obiturary in the Dallas Morning News and saw that Foy was from Baylor - I wondered if there was a connection.

Just putting two and two togethor. Sounded like he might be an apt inspiration for F. Davis and G. Atkinson . . .

Thanks for connecting the dots.

Bill

Submitted by Anonymous User on January 18, 2006 - 8:17am.

I had assumed that Foy Davis's name was an anglicized version of "la foi" (faith). Whether it is or not, it sounds like that would be the right meaning of the name for both Foys. Thanks for telling us about Foy Valentine.

Submitted by harper on January 18, 2006 - 8:29am.

Sounds like Foy Valentine was a REAL Christian and a REAL Baptist. I know a few of those too and what they tell me is that being a Baptist is all about Freedom, the freedom to have a relationship with God that is not shaped by creeds, or dictums handed down by Popes or Bishops or the Southern Baptist Convention, but by the sincere struggle to be a disciple of Jesus Christ. Thanks be to God for Foy Valentine and all such people in the world.

Submitted by Geodog on January 19, 2006 - 2:24am.

Thanks for introducing me to someone who sounds like a real hero. We need more examples like that in our life today.

Submitted by Anonymous User on January 20, 2006 - 12:54pm.

Eternal rest grant him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. Amen.

And may your grief be balanced with the hope of meeting him again in the company of Him whom you both serve so faithfully.

Dwight

Submitted by Anonymous User on January 20, 2006 - 2:46pm.

My husband did his doctoral dissertation on the way the religious press covered the Civil Rights movement during a specific set of years. When he heard that Foy Valentine had died, he, too, was saddened because his research had given him a great respect for a man he would never meet.

Submitted by Anonymous User on January 23, 2006 - 10:11am.

a hero of faith. thank you for sharingthis

Submitted by Anonymous User on January 23, 2006 - 5:49pm.

He was courageous on race, but far too accommodating of the spirit of the age when it came to abortion. He never spoke truth to power on that one.

Submitted by rlp on January 24, 2006 - 4:46pm.

Sure he did. He spoke on that subject to BAPTISTS in power and was willing to acknowledge that the issue is very complex and deserving of more than across the board condemnation. It was more than most would do, especially since it was clearly a costly stance for him.
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And whether he was right or not on the subject of abortion, he spoke boldly about what he thought was true, and once again was in the minority. So you may disagree with him, but it is incredibly unkind of you to say that he stayed silent on the subject, particularly in response to a loving tribute to him after his death. He most certainly did not remain silent. He just didn't agree with you.
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If you ask me, those polarized on each side of this issue are acting like asses.

Submitted by Anonymous User on January 24, 2006 - 8:59pm.

That same sort of complexity paralysis earned a lot of people the label of weak on civil rights. Valentine wasn't weak on civil rights. I wish he'd been the same sort of trailblazer on the rights of unborn persons, that's all.

Submitted by rlp on January 25, 2006 - 8:14am.

You see, you're thinking as a strategist. What position will we need to take to achieve this or that goal. That makes truth a means to an end. Foy Valentine thought in terms of what was right. His position on abortion was not a strategy to get something done. He said what he thought. Would you have had him say what he didn't think was true, in order to get something done?
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I understand the concept of complexity paralysis, but there is no good solution to that. If you think an issue is complex you can't make it simple. To do so is to engage in rhetoric.
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Will Campbell, another noted Baptist who fought for civil rights, understood that issue to be complex as well. He was one of the few radicals who had compassion for the poor southern whites, kept ignorant by poverty and used as tools by the establishment. His understanding of the complexity of the issue did not mean that he wasn't a prophet and a man committed to truth.
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So I will grant you that complexity makes decisive action hard. But that is simply the reality of the situation. Things only get worse when you polarize yourself and take extreme postions in the hopes of chieving one goal or another. That approach may give a short term payoff, but it is a long-term disaster.

Submitted by rlp on January 25, 2006 - 8:16am.

And, I'm sorry for the anger of my first response to you. I am still grieving his loss, and reacted rather defensively. I can tell that you are seeking truth and willing to take hard stands for it. I do admire that about you, whoever you are.

Submitted by Tim on January 28, 2006 - 10:24am.

Gordon, I am getting to the age now where a lot of my old heros and mentors are going on home. When I spoke at the funeral of one of them, Ken Burningham, a few years ago, it came to me that I am now the age (47) that Ken was when I first started working with him in 1979. In other words, it's now my turn to mentor others. A scary thought, but a thought that would have been deeply gratifying to Ken.

So don't be afraid to be a Foy to other people, Gordon. Peace be with you in your grief, but be aware of the fact that you already have a strong influence for good on a lot of people.

Tim Chesterton

Submitted by Anonymous User on February 6, 2006 - 7:26pm.

Foy and I were classmates at Baylor 1940-44 and at Southwestern Baptist Seminary and have remained friends as I have served on the Mission field in the Orient We sold Bibles together in West Virginia. He knew to work hard, study hard and made valued leadership, to envision needs and provide leadership to meeting those needs. Baptists and the world have been made a better place because of the vision and leadership he has given. I thank him for beng my friend. Max E. Pettit